Hi Bruce,
As you stated the tribocharge left on the component varies depending on material make-up and surface texture. Ideally the best suction cup material would be a material that closely resembles the make-up of the component compound minimizing electron transfer during the process. This is most likely not an option.
There are many factors that affect the amount of charge seen on the component at pick-and-place, humidity, pick-and-place speed, material texture, force, resistance of component compound, resistance of suction cup material, etc. As such this is a very difficult question to answer.
In my experience, a more conductive suction cup (~10E5) leaves less charge on the component package than a suction cup at (~10E9). I would suggest completing some experiments with different suction cup resistances, and material make-up to find a cup that meets all your companies requirements.